Del and I decided to surprise the kids and take all 8 children to Kauai for a full week’s vacation without any performances. This in and of itself is amazing considering that this was to be the first true vacation in four years (meaning no performances!) Needless to say, we had 8 very excited kids and one elated grandma!! Grandma Jean always travels with us so, of course, she was to get a vacation to this beautiful island as well. Now, as you can imagine when going to a tropical island, most of our time was spent in the ocean. We took a family surf lesson, went snorkeling, played in waterfalls, and my favorite–boogey boarding. We had the time of our lives. One day, we took the kids to “Secret Beach” by Princeville. This was truly an amazing beach. Picture this: there were maybe 10 other people at the beach, beautiful sandy shoreline with terrific waves for boogey boarding and plenty of sunshine. We rushed to set up a spot for Grandma Jean and all our equipment. Then we each grabbed a board and ran into the ocean eagerly anticipating the thrill of “catching a wave”. My goodness, did we have fun. The waves were 12-15 feet high and even Tori was able to ride the waves in to shore. Being the worrier in our family, I would continually count each little head after my ride. This became too difficult for me to do while in the water so I volunteered to join Grandma on the shore. Normally, I am not too worried as all the kids are great swimmers, but we were very close to a riptide and I was tired, but don’t tell the kids (Smile). Anyway, I had so much fun watching each kid catch the perfect wave. Shouts could be heard from all the kids from Tim down to Tori. “Watch this mom!” “Mom, this is going to be awesome-Watch me” “Check this out Mom!” Over and over the kids would get my attention so that I could watch their ride. After a time, Ty (age 12) yelled for me to watch him because “This will blow your mind Mom. It’s going to be my best move ever.” Well, never one to miss out on a mind-blowing experience, I turned all my attention to Ty. I have to admit that during this momentous occasion, I did get distracted and didn’t give ALL my attention to Ty. He noticed, of course, and came out of the ocean and kneeled right in front of me. “Mom, please watch me the whole time. I might do something drastic on the spur of the moment and I don’t want you to miss out. Please watch.” Well, having been instructed with such an earnest plea, I promised to only watch him. As he paddled out to the wave, Ty would glance back to make sure I was watching. He would smile the sweetest of smiles and give me the thumbs up sign after each glance. Then would you believe, the most amazing thing happened-Ty caught a HUGE wave and had a remarkable ride into shore. As all moms do, I jumped up and down clapping and yelling out my enthusiasm.
Later as the kids got tired, all the “wave catchers” came to shore and made sand castles. Having no heads to count, I spent a few relaxing minutes soaking in the incredible view across the ocean. Suddenly, to my amazement, a mother humpback whale and her baby jumped close enough for me to see it happen. What a sight that is to see. I turned to share my excitement with the family, but it was too late. The whales had moved on and we didn’t see them again. However, as I resumed my diligent and peaceful watch across the ocean, a still small voice whispered to me, “Deb, watch this. It’s going to be amazing. Don’t look away-this will blow your mind.” Ok, I didn’t actually hear God speak those words, but I did feel a sense of amazement of all that God had created. Now, if you have not been to Kauai, let me assure y0u that it is truly one of the most beautiful places that God created. Slowly, the sun began to set and words cannot describe the beauty and majesty of that sunset over the ocean. I simply sat in stunned silence watching God’s handiwork. It brought tears to my eyes as the Lord and I shared an awe inspiring sunset together.
That night I sat down to record the day in my journal and a thought occured to me. I wonder how many, many times during the day God tries to get my attention and I get distracted and look away. How many times He must be wishing that I would give Him all my attention so He could show my “something that would blow my mind!!” The challenges and trials of raising 8 children, managing a family band, being a wife, school teacher, daughter and friend consume so much of my time and energy. I know I miss out on those special times when God was trying to show me something and I missed it. Thankfully, He has not given up on me and I pray He continues to whisper in my ear so I might see His awesome, cool, mind blowing power everyday.